Thank you for scheduling your Mediumship Session.
We ask that you please arrive 5-10 minutes PRIOR to the start of your reading.

In order to get the most out of your reading there are a few things that Carl would like you to be aware of.
Mediumship is an art, not a science. It is a communication with those in The Spirit World and it requires energy from ALL parties involved; Your Loved One(s) in Spirit, the Medium, and most importantly, YOU. If you are still experiencing heavy grief, your energy will be much lower and that can affect your reading. If you are exhausted, or even if you didn’t eat a healthy meal or get adequate rest, that can affect your energy, and therefore can also affect your reading.

During your reading, you will be building a bridge of communication, and that will require your energy and your voice. By your voice, we mean your feedback in the form of your YES’s and your NO’s. If a piece of evidence, related to you or your Loved One in Spirit is shared with you, and it resonates with you or makes sense to you, an enthusiastic YES, is much more powerful than a weak “I guess so”, or “could be”. An enthusiastic YES is much more likely to help the Medium build their connection, compared to a monotone, or unemotional yes. Please do not agree or say YES to anything other than something that is real and valid for you. A “NO” from you is just as important. If a piece of evidence is shared with you, and you are not sure about it, simply tell the Medium that you are not sure. Any definitive and real response from you is what is expected. Please do not “feed” the Medium any information other than what they share with you. If the Medium begins to “feel an older man in Spirit”, please don’t say… “yea, that’s my father, he was 74 when he passed of a heart attack”. When the Medium says that they “feel an older man in Spirit”, and you know of an older man in Spirit, simply say “YES, that makes sense to me”.
This is what is meant by your “energy”, and it’s very important for your session. Your Loved Ones in Spirit need to hear you, and if you can’t identify with the pieces of evidence that the Medium is sharing with you, the connection or link will never get to be as strong as it could have been.

Your expectation of which Loved One in Spirit will be perceived by the Medium can also shift and affect your energy, or make you unaware or unsure of who the evidence belongs to. As an example, if you are hoping to connect with your father, and you are intently focused on information or evidence belonging to him, then if or when evidence is shared with you from someone who you didn’t expect to “hear from”, it becomes very easy to say NO, because you can’t place that information or evidence with your father when it fact it could have been that the Medium is perceiving another Loved One in Spirit first.

Please do your best to show up with an open heart and an open mind. This means do your best to be open to any Loved One in Spirit who can be perceived by the Medium. It is not uncommon for a Loved One whom you don’t expect to hear from show up as the 1st Spirit Communicator, and it is very possible and common that they will bring forward the next Spirit Communicator. It will take your awareness and knowledge of all of those in Spirit connected to you in order to get to the next Spirit Communicator. What we mean by this is that if you aren’t open to receiving information from “Aunt Sally” first, you might not ever be able to have “Aunt Sally” bring Dad forward.

This is why Mediumship is an art, not a science.

Carl knows from experience that those who have a true desire (not despair or a desperate desire) to connect with those in Spirit, are more likely to have a positive experience, compared to those who just want to see what happens.

Once your reading is scheduled, please invite your Loved Ones in Spirit to join you for your session. Yes, we literally mean invite them! Whether you are comfortable inviting them out loud or silently in your own head, they will hear you. “Dad, I have scheduled a Mediumship Session on this day, at this time, and I would like you to join me there. Please bring “so and so” with you, and please make yourself known to the Medium during our session time.”

Carl looks forward to your session time together and he will do his best to perceive your Loved One(s) in Spirit at that time. Please understand that your session time is a 30-minute time slot, not 30 minutes of pure Mediumship. If you have any questions regarding the information above, please email Carl before your session time. The more time you are able to spend in your session making connections to your Loved One(s) in Spirit, the better time you will have, and the less time Carl will have to take explain how your session time will be conducted.

Lastly, please understand that your reading time is a 30-minute time slot, not 30 minutes of reading time. If your session started on time and is extended by Carl because of the information he is sharing with you, this is of no additional cost to you.  If there is an unlikely event that causes you to be late, please understand that Carl will not be able to extend your scheduled reading time.